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A great pickup line serves several purposes: to break the ice, to start a conversation, to show interest and/or to get to know another person better.
So whether you are looking to chat with the cute stranger you see every day in line at the coffee shop, or trying to make conversation during a first date, try one of these 6 great pickup lines that easily cover all four criteria - and see where the conversation takes you.
Think you have a better pickup line than any of the ones listed here? Then scroll down to the bottom of this article and submit your own suggestions.
1. What does your name mean? Asking someone with an unusual first or last name is a great icebreaker, especially if they have a story to tell. If nothing else, you'll learn more about your intended interests' background and family history, and can ask more questions as they provide more details.
2. How do you fit into the picture here? There are several variations on this question, such as asking how someone knows the party host, or how they came across the band whose gig you're both at. This kind of question is especially fun if you are at a larger gathering where everyone seems to know everyone else, because oftentimes you'll get introductions to everyone else as well.
3. If you won a free education, what would you go back to school for - or would you go back at all? Not only does this question tell you what they went to school for (and if they took any post-secondary classes at all), but also provides you with a hint as to their goals, aspirations and dreams.
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4. Can you suggest something? Depending on where you are will determine what exactly you are asking a suggestion for. Coffee shops and bookstores/libraries are great for this icebreaker, as are local eateries, pubs, sporting events and grocery stores. By asking someone's opinion and advice, you are showing your interest, and if you take them up on their suggestion, you can then compare and contrast your experiences for a bit longer of a chat. Turning this pickup line into a date isn't terribly difficult either; just ask them if they'd like to explore more of whatever was suggested, together, at a later date.
5. Can you reach that for me? Perhaps you are trying to get a touch of sunscreen on your back, or maybe you are unable to reach something on the top shelf. Either way, this icebreaker will get the two of you in close physical contact (if not touching in the case of the sunscreen) so that you can make smiling eye contact to show your interest. Don't let the apple of your eye get away with a mere, "Sure," however; try starting a conversation about the item in question, whether or not sunscreen really helps, or some other related item in the vicinity.
6. You look familiar. Did we meet at John's -insert crazy, unusual or outlandish event here- ? This pickup line works in almost any situation, as long as you have a ready-made meeting place with which to start with. Perhaps try unusual but tame, "metal basket weaving class" or "underwater poetry reading" or strange, "pistachio eating contest".
The point is to make the person forget about John and ask about the thought-provoking event you mentioned. You'll get bonus Brownie points if you can actually come up with a real-life gathering that requires explanation and further discussion.
Source: Bonnie Albo, About.com
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Here are two quick tips.
1. Just feed off of what she says.
If she says she loves Mexican food, for example, ask her what her favorite restaurant is and tell her you never had a good experience with any Mexican restaurants. Maybe she'll offer to take you to her favorite spot.
2. Girls are into conversation...so converse but let her do most of the talking and pay attention! She will send you signals about what she likes: TV shows, music, food, movies... etc. She might even be a NASCAR fan! Whatever she is into, ask lots of questions as to why she is into it but make no comment, positive or negative. Unless she asks what you think, let her wonder how you feel.
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People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You are not a pervert, a predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.
You must be patient. When trying online dating don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience when online dating.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she would not just see your head.
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you on your first date.
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When it comes to dating, most men want to be "that guy." You know who I mean. He is plain looking, thinning hair, has love handles or spare tire, and certainly would not be mistaken for a men's clothing model on the cover of GQ. He scores with the most beautiful girl in the room. Let's discover how you can become that guy.
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That guy is what is known as an "alpha male." He knows how to score with the ladies. No idea what an alpha male is? Simply put, alpha males are a fountain of personal magnetism. It comes from having very high self esteem and that magnetism is irresistible to women. So, how can you become an "alpha male?"
First and foremost, by being honest with yourself.
When you see an alpha male dating only the most beautiful girl in the room, you feel inadequate in comparison. You compare yourself to him and come up short every time. What is really aggravating is you have no idea about how he does it. You wonder - "What does he have that I haven't got?"
Step back from your internal mirror for a moment and consider a few things you are overlooking. You will be encouraged, I promise.
Watching an alpha male operate should really be encouraging, not discouraging. Because, the fact that this average looking guy can score so easily should mean that you have the ability to do the same. All you need to know is what he knows and just repeat his moves!
Let me give you what I call my "5 Quick Thought Shifters." These will give you more confidence, coupled with correct body language, to start changing your dating life for the better overnight.
Shifter 1 - Be the alpha leader, not a beta follower.
Early man learned mating tactics from observing the animal kingdom. He observed that the strongest male was always the leader of the pack and the beta males served his needs. Alpha is in charge, beta follows from the shadows. With that said, the first step toward becoming an alpha is to stop being powerless and start taking charge.
If you have any of the following beta male traits, eliminate them:
• At social gatherings, your hands are in your pockets when meeting people.
• You look and act nervously most of the time.
• You have poor posture.
• You arms are crossed when observing or when talking with people.
• You act like you are out of place.
• You are never in command of your space.
These behaviors, and others, send off negative "vibes" that automatically place you in low status compared to alphas and prove that you lack even minimal self confidence. You need to recognize your real flaws, admit them, and work on correcting them because, the first step toward being in command, being an alpha male, is to start acting the part.
Becoming an alpha male takes knowledge and practice! Just as there are no born salesmen, no one is born an alpha male.
Shifter 2 - Find the confident you.
Women will admit that they admire a man in charge. This does not mean you act arrogantly. Alpha males project an unspoken confidence, never being overbearing about it. This is one of their most effective traits
You could be a guy who works at a minimum wage job and lives in a two room apartment, but, if you project confidence, women will be attracted to you. Remember, they know nothing at all about you. They only see the manner in which you carry yourself and that's all that counts.
The first step toward true self confidence is to identify your weaknesses and strong points as compared to an alpha male personality. I dare say, if you are not scoring with women, your number one problem is you lack high self esteem.
You need to really think about why you see yourself the way that you do. Alpha males generally are just average looking but, at some point, they realized they have something of worth to give. They focus on their accomplishments and talents, and remind themselves of those while they forget about the negatives.
Shifter 3 - Emotional triggers.
Great actors know that emotional communication is more important than dialogue and makeup. They want to communicate just the right mood to the audience. Alpha males understand this too. They are always calm and relaxed in social situations. They are very aware of the emotional mood they are creating. This is the attitude you need to adopt and to start living every day.
When interacting with women, beta males are usually off balance and not in control of their emotions. They stress about what she's thinking; her facial expressions; her verbal reactions. Stress is a guaranteed mood killer.
Alpha males, on the other hand, are always creating the right mood and enjoying the game.
Now, don't get this wrong. I am not talking about putting on some phony act. Being a true alpha male is only one part acting and nine parts being. Alpha males actually do not need any woman's approval, and in his mind, the woman must gain his approval. This is not being egotistical. This is being practical. It is narrowing the field to women who meet a certain set of guidelines for a relationship and rejecting the others.
Beta males place far too much importance on what a woman thinks and end up going home with only the morning newspaper!
Shifter 4 - Body language tells a powerful story of its own.
When it comes to effective body language, here are the most common traits of an alpha male. These are all deliberate actions made with a focused but calm thought process.
Learn these traits:
• Learn to easily make momentary eye contact, not too long, not too short.
• Never scan the room to see who might be checking you out.
• Be totally in command of your space. Be relaxed and comfortable.
• Relax your breathing. Breathe by using your stomach, not your chest.
Try these behaviors the next time you're in public, and see how people respond. The results should amaze you.
Shifter 5 - Live life on your terms.
Beta males are always eager to please, thinking they can ingratiate themselves with other. The result is, they get used and abused by the people they are trying to get to love them.
Alpha males listen to different inner music. They have no need to impress others or to win affection. They call the shots for every step of their lives and in every intimate relationship. They remain true to themselves and their male-ness.
Alpha males are guys who will lend a helping hand but, instead of granting every request, they will quickly say "No" without explanation. When pressed, an alpha male may simply say: "I just can't do it." They run on their own schedule and will not allow the demands of other people to interfere with the way they live. People quickly learn to respect and envy the alpha male's focused lifestyle.
Now you know a few of the secrets used by alpha males to attract the most beautiful women. But, there are actually 33 more secrets you can discover, here ==> alpha seduction tips. And, if you have low self esteem, you can get help here ==> confidence self esteem.
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There are hundreds of marketers pitching seduction methods promising success with women but almost none teach you what works on today's woman. Most of these hucksters promote stuff your grand-daddy did that just no longer works. Here is how to date your dream girl of the moment.
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Let's continue with the typical sales headline: "How To Date Hot Women!"
They promise to teach you how to score with the female that turns every head when she walks by. You know the type, the super-model looking babe. These marketers never mention the girl-next-door type who, chances are, would be a much hotter girl for a relationship.
The real question for you is: "Who is the girl you are hot for at the moment?"
If it's the super-model type, you can have her. If it's the average girl, you can have her too. It doesn't matter how she looks to other guys, it only matters if she "trips your trigger." The girl who does that for you, is the one you can have if you go about it using the right techniques.
This even applies to the girl who dumped you for someone else because, obviously, your technique was not good enough to keep her hooked. With the right techniques, any woman will be begging you to come back to her. To her, you will be a brand new man!
Almost every guy that you know wants to date a hot girl but, and you know this is true, they almost never have that experience. They end up dating someone who will date just about anyone or someone who has a crush on them. Usually that someone is not in your dream girl category. Am I right?
Why do you think that's true?
The answer is, hot girls intimidate most guys. The average guy thinks too lowly of himself so he never steps up to the plate. He just sits in the dugout and watches the star players do all the scoring with these beauties.
Tell me the truth. When you see a woman like this, you have a fleeting fantasy about what it would be like to be with her, to hold her, to kiss her, or just to hold hands with her. Your breath shortens a bit and your heart pounds a bit and it ends there. When it comes time to step up to the mound and pitch, you tell yourself you will surely be laughed at.
Is this familiar? Sure it is.
Now here is a little secret that will give you an edge over 99% of other men:
99% of men are just like you are at this moment. They make excuses for their lack of courage when it comes time to communicate with their idea of a dream girl. Do you see how this can give you an edge?
Would you like to be among the 1% of men who aren't afraid of failure and who know just how to get a date with their dream girl of the moment? These are the guys that know, even if they don't score with every dream girl, the odds are still in their favor. They know that, if they go to bat enough times, they are going to hit home runs. And, they do!
They are like a professional salesman. They will not quit until they get the seventh "No" when they ask the closing question seven times in different ways. That's why they are successful.
Did you know that "Babe" Ruth held the record for strike-outs at the same time as holding the record for most home runs in his career? The "Babe" swung at even the bad pitches. He could golf the baseball out of the park!
Get the point?
In order to have a rich dating life, you have to step up to the plate and swing the bat like the "Babe." You have to keep asking the closing questions.
Can you guess the #1 reason that most average guys never approach beautiful women? It is because of a mental block. You are likely suffering from the same block.
If you find yourself frozen in your tracks and unable to approach your dream girl of the moment you are among the 99%.
Let's solve your problem right now.
The first thing you need to do is to create a new way of thinking about yourself and how you view all women.
This involves convincing yourself that you are really a worthy guy, someone any woman would be lucky to know on an intimate basis. This is an exercise in raising your self esteem which, may I say, is pretty low when it comes to women. Try these self-talk points or make up your own:
• "I can have a relationship with most women I choose"
• "Because a woman is beautiful doesn't mean I can't have her."
• "I attract women and they find me attractive.
• "No woman is too classy for me."
• "Most guys are afraid of beautiful women. I'm not afraid."
Say these talking points to yourself, out loud if possible, many times a day.
Believe it or not, adopting a positive attitude about yourself and how you view women will make you more attractive and interesting to women. Women read men on an intuitive level, "vibes" if you will, and your high self esteem will show through without you uttering a word.
You may find this second trick takes some hit and miss practice.
You need to understand the proven way to successfully communicate. The major problem you have had with approaching attractive women is you simply did not know how to flirt with them in the right ways.
You have watched other guys employ stupid techniques and get rejected time and again. And, without one of the successful 1% to teach you the right way, you will remain among the failing 99%.
It's a proven fact, getting a date with a super-hot babe comes down to one very powerful technique: Knowing how to flirt.
Each woman will respond to a certain flirting technique. If you know how to flirt with each type of woman, you will reach them at an exciting level that most guys have no clue is there.
You see, 99% of guys fail because they are not focused on the girl and what she needs.
Let's smash some outdated ideas here.
At first, flirting is never about asking her personal questions. And, it is never about establishing compatibility. In fact, flirting can only be quickly successful by avoiding methods that guys often use to find a common bond.
In actuality, the flirting technique is about creating intimacy. It’s that delicate balance between teasing a woman, while making her need your focused attention. And, whatever you do, do not compliment her at this stage of the game. That's lame and will not work in 99% of the cases. She will see right through it or might even have low self esteem herself and simply will not believe you are sincere. You will be surprised at how many really beautiful women have low self esteem!
Instead, confidently approach her and find a way to create that emotional connection that you must have for all successful flirting conversations! You’ll find that low-key teasing and light conversation are the best ways to attract and date your dream girl of the moment. In other words: Don't be so serious!
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